You can’t stop contact about the kids but you can stop it when it’s about anything else. You don’t have to concern yourself with his opinions or negative comments. If you can see through his lies, then let him lie and move on. As your kids get older they will find out who he is on their own. You do have a choice to only discuss the kids and nothing else. Stand your ground. It’s hard, it’s an adjustment, but caving and arguing and telling him he’s a liar will only drag things out and it won’t help a thing. You can’t change him. That’s why you are divorced. ~ Renee Overstreet
Treat the thoughts in your head like a garden. Nurture the positive productive thoughts and get rid of the negative nonproductive thoughts.
Treat others like you want to be treated. Life is about love and kindness!
Respect is earned so someone’s disrespect may be your own fault and the put down may have been the truth you didn’t want to hear, so before you dismiss someone from your life be sure it isn’t your own poor perception of reality. ~ Vanessa Thompson
