Unconditional love have to be in love which mean two working together to build a solid foundation, not one person in love with one and the one whose loving with their being, get used up calling it unconditional love when they are in love by themselves. You can be in love and not get beat down by it, so when a person attracts you with the kind of love you love with in action, you are not broken but rather embrace the love because you can identify love because you know how to love. ~ Linda Dees